Wednesday, December 4, 2019

Hold true friends with both hands but don't let ones proximity be your weakling side



Hey, Indeed, one should not let a friend down because the memory it leave's in ones mind is permanent, it is irremediable and not even a handful money could change it, a friend that needs your help is a friend indeed, it means that you can be counted on;  in the time of dilemma, if ever you did help your friends; you have already won their hearts which calls on you for future benefit,  but if you ignored them and let go their slipping hands, despite this forlorn state; they can still turn the tables  on and make a huge lunch, you might need their help at that time but you have killed your chance, Charismatic men be it bad or good do use this tarrain of manipulations to win the heart of the people and therefore proliferate helping chambers in their life. Whenever you stretch out your both hands to help, remember you are at a greater chance of being lunched along with the one you helped, but a friend should help another with wisdom and not overlook the existence of false friends whose nature is like a a lion that receives gift from the manager but when on the loose, he  feasts on you.
A false friends becomes a beast that not only beseech your downfall but also seek to feast on you.


 A false friend is never satisfied by your help, his or her want is inexplicable because they truly believes that seeing themselves much better than you will be their ultimate source of happiness, they are like wolves   in sheeps clothing, always smiling at your face but lay in wait four your destruction at your back,  don't hesisitate to see the traps of a false friend. Just as you give out a helping hand, be conscious of whom you give alms as well how you be their alter ego unless their bait catches you into such a big mess....Just little wisdom in everything you do, moderations in everything, trust me, you cannot be harmed  while helping. These are core knowledge to beating obstacles that ditches you .


A false friend smiling at your face but at your back lay in wait for your great destruction.

The outlook of life, if one is to ever discover how it works , hence be it a stepping stone to one's greatness

In life, it is filled with up and downs, sometimes our destiny can be delayed, yet it cannot be denied, it is preparing you for a huge success beyond words, it comes like boom, at a blink of eye, you by pass all the odds in life, take heart when life is not smooth with you, sometimes you feel that you are useless and worthless since you never gripped what you want, you are not supposed to be be discouraged because your destiny shall shine when the time comes, sometimes, it delays you for a better lunch which leads to a better ending than those that started and wobbled on their way, But you should note one thing, no matter how you wait for your destiny to  lunch you, it will always need your hard work to make it be, without hard work , it is likened to a Gold ore without refining it, and as well no matter how you work hard, if your destiny is yet to shine....it will be dormant, so don't be frustrated about you working hard without reaping the benefit, sometimes if you can't grip what your heart desires, it means that; maybe your destiny is a different thing that  you mistook for what your heart desires, Always feel encouraged in the time of adversaries but try to feel positive and hope for the best, keep working harder and await to see the magic and how great your future would be. A  guy once told me of how things had been hard for him in his early life that made him think of himself a cursed being; he told me of how he wrote jamb examination ( admission exam  in Nigerian universities) five time when he did applied for medicine and surgery but never got a mark that could secure any admission for him, in the sixth jamb examination ; when the result was out, it was still poor as usual and he decided to change his course to Chemistry education, as of now, I personally know the man as a professor who was appointed a Vice chancellor in a federal university in his country, is this not how destiny projected the lunching this man ? In  the face of disappointments lies the greatest chance of modifying ones future for  it's  betterment. Stay positive that's the fuel of ones destiny.

Monday, June 25, 2018

https://unnportal.unn.edu.ng/StudentWebometricData.aspx